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Quality: DVD9 | Release date: April 13, 2020 |
Keywords: tragic love, love, dance | Genres: Drama, Romance |
Duration: 90 min | Original title: Bereaved |
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Everything that we are being asked to do right now, to keep ourselves safe, is how my 12 year old son was asked to live his life since the age of 2 when he was first diagnosed with cancer. For anyone who has experienced chemotherapy or transplants for cancer treatments ( or other autoimmune disease), they know every person who comes in contact with your loved one is a potential risk... every item you bring in from the “outside” to their space is potentially contaminated. It is a frightening way to live life, yet so many people have lived this way for years and continue to live this way through this pandemic. All of this has brought back floods of emotions and memories of my son with his face mask on, isolated in his hospital room with no WBC to fight infection. So, my post today is just an acknowledgment of those who lived this fearful world already... those of us who based our lives around keeping a loved one safe from germs... those of us who know all to well how it feels to fear the air you breathe ? Did anyone else share my experience? #grief#griefquotes #griefjourney #griefsupport #griefandloss #griefrecovery #grieving #grievingmother #grievingdaughter #grievingparents #bereaved#lossofalovedone #lossofachild #lossofaparent #cancertreatment
?GOD #Afternoon Beautiful Souls‼️? ??May The Lord cause you to flourish, you and your #Children and may you be #Blessed by The Lord, maker of #Heaven and #Earth !???? Lord we speak #Healing in the Name of Jesus! #Lord help those who are being effected by the #Tornadoes happening in the #Midwest & For #Comfort to ALL #Bereaved families!!! #GoodAfternoon #WeWorshipYou #OnEarthAsItIsInHeaven #DryBones #DryBonesComeAlive #PrayForNations ??♀️??♀️??♀️??♀️??♀️??♀️??♀️?????????????? ・・・ ・・・ ・・・ #Repost @hillsongworship with @repostsaveapp ・・・ Awake! #Hillsong
My son left his backpack on the hook by my front door. He filled it with things he wanted for a camp out he planned to attend. After he died, his backpack still hung on that hook... exactly as he left it. I never wanted to move it. It could have stayed exactly as it was, untouched, for the rest of my life...so many things that belonged to him, placed with purpose by him, that I wished I could keep exactly as he left them before he died?Does anyone else still have their loved ones things exactly where they left them before they died? #griefjourney #grief #griefquotes #griefsupport #griefandloss#griefawareness #grieving #grievingmother #grievingquotes #grievingprocess #grievingdaughter #grievingparents #bereavedparent #bereavedmother #lossofspouse #lossofsibling #lossofalovedone #lossofachild #childloss #lossofaparent #lifeafterloss#missingyou
Grief is not just a mental experience. It's a physical one, too. At #endwell17, Frank Ostaseski (@fiveinvitations) shared how he managed the experience of constant loss while assisting friends and patients during the AIDS epidemic. Visit endwellproject.org to watch Frank’s talks from #endwell 2017 and 2019. [Link in profile.]
It’s not a question of is my mind playing tricks on me, there are many days when I wish it was. I wish the things I have to face weren’t real. It’s pivotal to face your issues, to tackle your grief and life’s obstacles but I would be lying if I didn’t say some days I wish it was all some sort of misunderstanding. Wishful thinking. Drop a ? if you feel me
My heart hurts for all the parents that are grieving their children’s Senior Year. Their proms, their sports, their graduations. I feel deeply for you, because that is how my heart feels times infinity. All. The. Time. There are no redos or rescheduling for myself and so many other bereaved parents. It’s just, the end. The absolute, bitter, horrific end. So while you have every right to be sad, angry, and grieve your child’s missed opportunities, remember that ultimately you still have them. And you can’t put a price on that. ? #perspective #teammarik #love #loss #hope #grief #bereaved
Today I am letting myself be vulnerable without self judgement ? #griefsupport #griefjourney #bereavement #griefandloss #griefawareness #griefwork #lossofaparent #lossofamother #lossofachild #griefquotes #mantras #selfhealers #yoga #meditation #higherself #loveisenergy #fullmoon #lovedonesinheaven #hugyourlovedones
Wednesday comics and cartoons⠀ ⠀ Love is...enduring.⠀ @billasprey⠀ @loveis_cartoon⠀ ⠀ https://loveiscomix.com .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #kimcasali #kimcasaliloveis #loveis #loveiscomics #griefcomics #griefcartoon #grief #missingyou #griefsupport #missyouforever #lifewithoutyou #sorrow #lifeafterdeath #illneverbethesame #wellneverbethesame #griefjourney #inlovingmemory #inmemoryof #foreverinmyheart #alwaysinmyheart #forevermissed #griefneverends #griefislove
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Be brave enough to heal yourself even when it hurts.⠀ -⠀ #griefreiki #griefquotes #grief #loss #griefjourney #sorrow #sad #griefsupport #brokenheart #heartbreak #broken #griefrecovery #missingyou #healingafterloss #loveyouforever #memories #remember #neverforget #griefandloss #mourning #grieving
Alfred Lord Tennyson wrote: Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Do you agree? ?? I do. #griefsupport #griefjourney #bereavement #griefandloss #griefawareness #griefwork #lossofaparent #lossofamother #lossofachild #griefquotes #mantras #selfhealers #yoga #meditation #higherself #quantumlove #fullmoon #faithoverfear
How do you move through grief when you literally can't move? It can only happen if you feel every feeling, are gentle with yourself and take it at your own pace. This might be only one hour-at-a-time but you will get there. -⠀ #griefreiki #griefquotes #grief #loss #griefjourney #sorrow #sad #griefsupport #brokenheart #heartbreak #broken #griefrecovery #missingyou #healingafterloss #loveyouforever #memories #remember #neverforget #griefandloss #mourning #grieving
?When looking for something to memorialise a loved one the choice can be bewildering, but at the same time it may not be what you are looking for. You may have something very specific in mind or it might be a requirement for your needs. Here are just two recent examples of how we have managed to create something beautiful and absolutely what the person wanted that they were not able to get it anywhere else. ?A split walking stick: A lovely gentleman said we was moving to New Zealand and he wanted one of our walking sticks so he could continue to walk his faithful dog, but he wanted to carry the stick on the plane with him so he would not be separated, and through our sister site that deals with pets www.mypetsashes.co.uk we asked our craftsman if he could help. He could, and you can see what was achieved, coupled with a beautiful swirling topper. Needless to say the gentleman was delighted and was able to go traveling with just what he wanted. (Swipe to see ➡️➡️) ?Triple Teign: The second example this where a lady wanted to bury three sets of ashes together and could not find anyone to help, until she came to us. She was after a simple and beautiful urn to fit three sets, so we we made one. The lady was so pleased at she had tried without success and then we were able to help. ?So if there is something you need but are unable to procure easily – let us know and we will do our very best to help. Please don’t hesitate to get in touch via message or email us on [email protected] #bereavement #grief #griefsupport #loss #griefandloss #griefjourney #love #grieving #lifeafterloss #healing #mentalhealth #mourning #griefquotes #hope #griefawareness #ashpendant #ashjewellery #cremationashjewellery #ashkeepsake #cremationashkeepsake #ashmemorials #ashring #family #support #blogger #scatteringashes #memorial #blog #instagood
?Our Missing You Pendant is simply beautiful. This talented jeweller is based here in Devon and has over 20 years experience. We have worked with Fiona to create a stunning range of memorial ashes into glass jewellery items exclusively for Scattering Ashes. ?The Missing You memorial pendant is set securely within a simple solid 925 sterling silver setting. It is such a tactile piece of memorial jewellery, giving comfort in the same way that a ‘worry-bead’ does. ?As soon as you order we will send you a pack with everything you need to send a small amount of ashes to our jeweller. ?We will email you with confirmation that the ashes have arrived safely. ?Our jeweller will make you a totally unique and beautiful ashes within glass pendant. As soon as it is ready we will send you your Missing You necklace in a pretty presentation box. ?When you lose someone it can be very helpful to have something tactile that you can wear so that you can remain in contact with them. ?Memorial jewellery offers you a very discreet way of keeping a small amount of your loved one with you for as long as you need to. ?If you want to let people know that the jewellery holds a small amount of your loved one’s ashes then you can, otherwise you can be safe in the knowledge that only you know that it’s there. https://scattering-ashes.co.uk/green-breeze-disc-pendant/
Tonight at 7pm - light a candle and join us in a #waveofhope as we unite together ✨
You’ll never be “fixed”. ✨ “It’s not anyone’s fault. Especially not yours and especially not mine. But here’s the deal, it’s uncomfortable for everyone. So let’s discuss this: We want our loved one to be discussed. But we don’t want pity or fixing or sympathy. We want to be treated like a human. Grief isn’t a illness. You can’t fix it. You can’t make it go away. And you can’t ignore it. ____ So what do you do for your loved one experiencing grief and loss? Be kind. Be gentle. Be silent. Be there. Don’t be there, and what I mean is give and hold space. And then check back in. Continue and repeat. Do this often. Grief is not curable or fixable. Period. Understand a plant or flowers won’t fix but it is kind and will show love and kindness. Here’s the gauge - is it kind? Is it helpful? And is it intrusive? Ask yourself these questions when dealing with someone whose experiencing grief and loss. And also for the person whose grieving - realize there is no rule book and most people mean well and they are just not knowing what to do- there are some cruel individuals ( there are always mean spirited souls out there) but for the most part everyone just wants you to be ok!” @afterchloe ______ Share your suggestions for helping your grieving loved one below ? #bereavedmother #bereavedparents #sadness #griefrecovery #life #selfcare #griefshare #mourning #breakthesilence #trauma #grievingmother #stillbornstillloved #griefisreal #pain #babylosssupport #sad #griefislove #art #rip #griefhealing #grievingprocess #memories #funeral #mentalhealthawareness #suicide #griefwork #lossofalovedone #grieftherapy
The tale of the bunny dolls for Easter weekend?? Sophia’s colour has always been baby pink?When Sophia was alive , we dressed her in baby pink and now we remember our beautiful little girl by buying soft pink flowers for her (particularly roses) It helps me to feel close to her by having a special colour attached to her memory. When I was pregnant with Harriet, it helped to choose a colour for her too. I chose yellow, because to me, yellow is the colour of hope? After Sophia died, our families travelled to Australia to be with us. My sister Rebekah had bought a special bunny doll for Sophia to give to her as a gift when she was born. My sister still gave us the doll in memory of Sophia and the doll’s little dress was pink? When I was pregnant with Harriet, I told my sister that Hattie’s colour was yellow. My sister bought the very same bunny doll that she bought for Sophia, But in yellow for Hattie? My dear friend Lydia who is an incredible artist, painted the sister dolls in an incredible artwork for Hattie’s nursery. Sophia isn’t here with us on earth, but the bond of sisterhood lives on. My little pink girl and my little yellow girl are forever sisters and this beautiful artwork is an illustration of that.?? Thank you so much to my beautiful sister @ripkeka and my talented friend @lydbachi.I cannot express just how much joy your gifts have given us. Back yard bunny doll photo shoot by my love @rupertsherman • • • • #loss #grief #love #childlosssurvivor #griefjourney #grief #lifeafterloss #grievingmother #greivingmum #childloss #singing #song #babylossawareness parents #loveneverdies #infantloss #babylosssupport #neonataloss #stillbornstillloved #motherhoodrising #honestmotherhood #motherhoodintheraw #bedeeplyrooted #bestofmom #memoirsofbabyloss #rainbowbaby #angelbaby #nationalsiblingday #nationalsiblingsday #siblings #happysiblingsday
These unprecedented times have led to a huge amount of confusion on social do’s and don’t. The following is merely our opinion based on Government advice and has no legal standing. What we know – Funerals are to go ahead, but mourners are to be limited to immediate family, being: * Spouse/Partner * Parents/carers * Brothers/Sisters * Children (and partners) Is scattering ashes part of the funeral? Well it depends which source you use, most dictionaries stick with the traditional Christian version of what constitutes a funeral: a ceremony, often a religious one, for burying or cremating (= burning) a dead person. Although for other religions wider aspects need to be considered, specifically those on Hindu and Sikh faiths where a funeral would most certainly include the immersion of the ashes in water. It appears that the many if not all crematoria have put ashes scattering ceremonies on hold during the outbreak (you would need to contact your crematoria as each one is different). So our advice is: Delay the scattering ceremony unless religious doctrine makes it a requirement. Even last wishes should not be considered absolute in such circumstances, as it is unlikely that your loved one would wish to put you at risk through commemorating them. If you are compelled to scatter the ashes, only immediate family should be in attend. Do not expect to use the services of a boat company, as many in not all will not be operating. You can scatter into the river from a rivers edge. Please exercise caution. * Do not lean over the edge where your safety may be compromised * Scattering off bridge should be avoid to for the same reason (and the ashes will blow about) * Use a ponton or floating mooring if accessible, this is an example above, which allows better access to the water. Please note, many of these are private and public access is not permitted. We do not have a list of locations open to the public. As far as we are aware the scattering platform at Leicester is still accessible (we do not know for certain). * Follow existing Environment Agency guidance and general rules / advice on scattering on water * It is a good idea to record or even stream the ceremony.
#Bereaved#onemonthgone#somuchpain?
Our pain of loss is very real. Our wounds leave scars, sometimes invisible, but we are always aware of them. Jesus has willingly gave himself up for us so that when we take our wounds to him, he heals them. Good Friday is not good because of Jesus’s death, but rather because of what that death means for us. It is because of his sacrifice that we can be healed. It is also because of God’s willingness to sacrifice his own son, that we can know He is also a God who truly understands our own pain of loss. If we take our wounds to him not only can they be healed, but they can also be used as an agent of healing for others! #bereavedparents #purposeforthepain #nothingiswasted #griefsupport #childloss #infantloss #miscarriage #hopefamilycare #easter #goodfriday #resurrection #hope #faith #love #truelove #healed #wounds
Another customer review: “I love this forget me not seed necklace it’s beautiful and simple and just what I hoped for. This past year I lost 3 separate pregnancies to miscarriage and for me this necklace symbolizes the loss but also the babies that I never got to hold. I can wear it and have them near my heart without a blaringly obvious dedication. Thank you for making such a beautiful piece.” • • With Mother’s Day approaching, I’m certain there are some women who may be dreading the holiday. Perhaps it’s a painful reminder. Let’s not forget to acknowledge those mamas in the world who may not be physically holding their sweet little babes. It’s the love and bond that makes you a mama. Not the amount of days you spent with them. • • I pray for each of you who has lost a child. My heart cannot even handle the thought of it and I know it’s a reality for many ?
I can’t say this loud enough. You are not broken. None of us are. We are all born perfect and whole. But life being what it is (harsh, unfair, hard, painful), we get hurt. We get some bruising. We develop deep wounds. And as a response to this deep wounding we develop maladaptive coping mechanisms. This doesn’t mean that we should blame ourselves. No. Quite the opposite. We are only trying to protect ourselves from life’s inevitable pain. But there will come a day where our coping methods don’t serve us anymore. Where staying safe means that we can’t be fully ourselves. Where protecting ourselves means closing ourselves off to living a full life. When we finally get tired of playing small, of being a victim and of not feeling the freedom and peace that we so deeply long for, then we change. Then we heal. Then we transform and let go of what doesn’t serve us. We are not broken. There is no such thing ?
Sunday quotes and poems⠀ ⠀ Losing you has changed almost everything, except losing you hasn't changed⠀ love, that I love you ❤️?⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ #griefislove #griefneverends #griefsupport #grief #griefawareness #grieving #loss #missingyou #missyouforever #bereavement #sorrow #lifeafterdeath #lifeafterloss #illneverbethesame #wellneverbethesame #missmydadsomuch #griefjourney #griefandloss #mourning #forevermissed
Short and sweet. Cultivating courage was not something I was good at. But it took a hell of a lot when I was pregnant with Ari. I had to cultivate courage for her. For my husband. For my son. After her death, I had to cultivate the courage for myself. To continue to live. To be a wife and a mother. To be a contributing member in society. It was never something I was good at. People pleaser here. Hated conflict and the conversation it involved, too. That kept me small, literally shrinking with every scary thing. But I'd like to think that is where I have expanded and grown so much on my journey. Cultivating the courage to do what I needed to first survive, then as I began to rediscover myself. To say, do, and be what and whom I needed and wanted. To speak my mind and be an advocate for my grieving heart. Want to know how to cultivate this courage, too?. P.S. It's already in you. Sending love and support your way today. XOXO
Loss and grief is an inevitable part of life, and you can experience it for many reasons. Accepting the reality of the loss of someone or something we value can be challenging. Many people find the best way to deal with their feelings is to share them with someone they trust. Our volunteer counsellors are trained to listen, care and support. People who want to access support can call between 8 am to 1.00am, 7 days a week, 365 days a year. Call 1300 845 745. . . . . #grief #griefjourney #griefsupport #griefandloss #griefsucks #griefrecovery #griefcounseling #loss #lossofalovedone #trauma #traumarecovery #traumahealing #bereavement #bereavedmother #bereavedparents #bereavementsupport #bereavedfather #petbereavement #petbereavementcounsellor #relationshipsupport #divorcesupport #separationsupport #naturaldisaster #bushfiresupport #australianbushfiresupport #bushfirerelief #droughtsupport #volunteers
In memory of Stuart Hughes. Plaque #missed #liverpool #lfc #copeland #neverwalkalone